The soluition here is to use any other instance then the 3 big ones: lemmy.ml, lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works Lemmy instances scale horribly, the more users the worse the performance.
See this piechart from a week ago, the top two have over 50% of the users:
The soluition here is to use any other instance then the 3 big ones: lemmy.ml, lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works Lemmy instances scale horribly, the more users the worse the performance.
See this piechart from a week ago, the top two have over 50% of the users: