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Cake day: October 8th, 2023

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  • So heres the thing, you’re twisting the narrative. You’re trying to be the victim here. I’m not saying you are dangerous because you’re disabled, you are PROVING you are dangerous by manipulating the conversation to look like you are being victimized. Anyone who’s been around the block can spot that kind of manipulation from a mile away and will start avoiding interacting with you as much as possible as soon as they see that because it has the power to seriously fuck up social circles. You need professional help because anyone who ISNT a professional does not have the time or knowledge to interact with you without the risk of fucking up their lives because they got on your bad side. If you want to be accepted more or interact with anyone who isnt young and nieve, you need to stop with the victim complex. I’m not terrified of you, I was giving you some feedback before I inevitably block you and move on with my life because the only way a narcissist can improve their position is if they want to, and the unfortunate thing about that disability is it makes them not really care to. Anyways, I’m officially out because I’m not down with narrative manipulation. I wish you a good life as long as you dont let your disability fuck up numerous other peoples lives


  • I’m not choosing to withold empathy from you, I am recognising the very real danger that your disability poses to myself, the fact that I am acknowledging it is a disability is proof that I am cautiously showing you empathy. What I am saying though is that the instant you stop showing me empathy is the instant I shut off empathy for you, the difference (or similarity depending on how you look at it) is that it takes similar amounts of work and intention from me to shut off empathy, as it would take for you to turn on empathy. Neurotyps are only ever going to think about narcissism enough to cut empathy off to you if you’ve TOLD them you are a narcissist, or you have shown them so through your actions.


  • I’ve seen your modlog, it shows the banned messages. You are frequently toxic, and if the disorder you are talking about is narcissism, then yeah, that fucking sucks, but its REALLY HARD to have empathy for a dangerous asshole. If you dont have the ability to naturally have empathy, you need to learn how to fake and maintain it, because empathy is a two way street, and we arent going to give you any if you arent going to give us any. Empathy isnt a magical construct, it can be learned and purposely maintained/used. Is that form going to take more energy and effort than natural empathy? Hell yeah it will, but its an important skill for society to function

















  • Kedly@lemm.eetoMemes@lemmy.mlHappy Lunar New Year
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    5 months ago

    Yeah ok at this point I’m gonna respectfully opt out. I appreciate the conversation we are having, but theres small statements in each of your responses that I feel are disrespecting me such as calling my talking points nonsense, or assuming I havent traveled the world which I have. I do see and appreciate your love of other cultures And I share and share and respect that sentiment, so I do still wish you a good day


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    5 months ago

    Yeah badically. I’m not a fan of the social justice trend to focus on the negative and judgy terminology of a nuanced issue rather than focussing on the positive and how can we do things better side. I do not like the concept of privilege, but appreciate the concept of intersectionality as an example, as even though they both focus on: We all experience challenges that others might not and its helpful to be aware that someone might be experiencing a challenge that you do not personally face. One comes at it from an inclusive “everyone is in this boat” perspective, and the other comes at it from an exclusionary “Some people experience this less than others” persepective. Tangent aside, I’d much rather we focus on how to better appreciate the things and concepts we like, than put the main focus on the “wrong” ways of appreciating what we like.

    Tl:dr:

    I dont like cultural appropriation as a concept

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    The concept of cultural appreciation and how most respectfully to do so I think is fantastic